Really, who do you think you're kidding???

These "positive messages" of "finding yourself, healing from abuse and learning to dream again" might really seem like pie in the sky, fluff, nothing of sustenance and sometimes just a lot of HOT AIR...but they really ARE ANYTHING BUT that. 

It isn't just "thinking positive" that makes us happy. 

It is KNOWING ourselves.  

That is why the "finding me" part is SO important in the process of SINGING A NEW SONG. We NEED to start with ourselves and why shouldn't we think GOOD AND POSITIVE things about and for ourselves??? As we repeat often...
YOU are worth it!!!

It isn't just feeling better and not having the memories and painful damage of the wounds of abuse that will make us so happy.  

It is ACCEPTING and LOVING ourselves.

"Healing from abuse" is our right as humans and is crucial in the process of SINGING A NEW SONG...We deseve to let go of the pain and all the negative defining and demeaning statements by others who said those things TO hurt us. Why shouldn't you put your effort into TAKING GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF...
YOU are worth it!!!

It isn't just wanting more for our lives that make us happy...

It is BELIEVING in ourselves. 

"Learning to dream again" the goal in the process of SINGING A NEW SONG. We really can dream again and MAKE PLANS to SEE OUR DREAMS COME TRUE.

I am definitely NOT trying to kid anyone when I share how I have grown THROUGH this process. I relish life and take the process of living it very seriously. I believe in enjoying life and I passionately desire that EVERYONE realizes that they deserve to live a full life without abuse and its damage. It may seem too good to be true because it feels so far away but we need to be reminded that "IF WE CAN IMAGINE IT, WE CAN make it happen". Don't give up on your self, your healing journey or your dreams.

You REALLY ARE worth it!!!